Belated heavenly birthday wishes Justin / Jenny Tavendale Mum To Ross
Sorry I am a little late with your birthday wishes Justin Hope you celebrated with all of our angels. I pray you stay close to your precious family and send them lots of special Angel Hugs God Bless
I still remember the day you were born. I remember the surprise I felt when the doctor told me how much you weighed and how I thought that we wouldn't be able to feed you:} I know we didn't get to talk to each other very much, but there is not a day that goes by that I do not think about you. I hold dear the few months you came to live with me in Tenneessee. Its seems as though I cherish every word that you ever said to me. I wish you could have gotten to know Krystal and Kyle even better. They still look up to you and your sister. I cannot imagine how your mother and her family has been feeling. A mothers loss of a child is incomprehensible. I still cry sometimes when I think of you, but I know your mother and her family suffered greater than I, because of the memories you had with them. One of the greatest moments I spent with you was on the football field. It always seemed to me that was where you excelled and was the happiest. I can't begin to know the reasons God does the things he does, but I bet you do. I realize that you do not know what I am feeling or writing and because of where you are it probably doesn't matter anyway. But I pray that God will give you this message "I will always love and miss you as long as I am still breathing." and I wish I could have seen you on your 21st birthday. I don't stay in touch as much because I deal with your loss very privately. But it is the hardest and worst feeling I have ever felt.
Thanks for telling me you love the last time I saw you.
Happy Birthday Justin / Rosemary Sis Of Alvin Cremeans
I am sorry to be late posting this Justin but I have been suffering from migraines for several days now. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this bittersweet time. love and prayers, Rosemary sis of Alvin Cremeans xoxo
Missing you. / Tiffany Wright (Friend)
Just and I graduated together in 2004, there was NEVER a dull moment when Justin was around.... I look through all the crazy pictures from high school and just cant believe your not here anymore... We all miss you Justin and love you. Close
Justin and I graduated together in the class of 2004. He was definately one of a kind. He was hilarious and aggravated me and everyone else every chance he got. Even though I really wanted to get mad at him..I never could just because it was Justin. All I could do was laugh. He was an amazing person and I will never forget him. I miss those days in high school and realize now how I took it all for granted. My prayers go out to Justin's family and friends. Happy Fathers Day, Justin!!
Another Angel Mom / Edith Thompson
What a beautiful site for such a handsome young man..My name is Edith & I was visiting Alice's son Danny & saw ur post ,so I came to visit Justin..My only son Dennis passed in Jan 2006 from a drug overdose.It was the beginning of my end.For as much as our sons suffered from the disease of addiction,I doubt that they knewhow devastating their passing would be to the family they left behind..I'm also a member of Remember Me.Alice is right it's a much less somber group.we're able to grieve but also able to laugh & know that even though we'll never be the same ,we have to learn to accept the person we've become.God Bless You & yours & stay strong!! rememberme@yahoogroups.com
From Another Sad Mom / Alice Silverman (GN Mom )
Tammy you are right what clones of each other MY GOD and did you notice the birthdays, Your son's is 6/21/86 and Dan's was 7/21/87. One month and one year from their birth date and angelversary year. I am in another grief group called remember me in heaven on yahoo. There's another mom from Florida who's son passed around around our son's ages. If you're still living down in Florida you guys should hook up if you look at his site I know the three of them are chillin up in Heaven together. Stay strong, I'm trying. You might try that group as well. Smaller group, lot's of funny cheering up kind of words passed back and worth, very open.
Love and Peace, Alice Danny's Mom 7/21/87-10/20/06 Close
I so hoped you enjoyed the celebration of your life today. So many of your best friends and all of your family gathered today to show how much we love and miss you. It was a very hard day, but a very special day. Today showed just how many people love and miss you so very much. I hoped you liked all the balloons, I know you read every message.
I still can't believe it has been a year since you left us. It has been the hardest year of my life. I think back to a year ago tonight and I wondered how would I ever survive. But with God's grace, I have. Some days have been so hard... I miss you more as time goes on. I miss you smile, your hugs, your kisses, all the "I love you Moms". I would give anything to hear you come stomping through the back door, with your dirty shoes on and ask, "what are you cooking? I hope it's steak!" Oh, how I wish I could cook you one more steak or one more pot of spaghetti. Everytime Dad grills steak, I think of you and how much you would enjoy it. But I know you are in a much better place and are at peace. And as PaPa said today, you wouldn't leave heaven, even if you could.
I love and miss you more than ever. Your presence is so missed in this family. As Shari said, keep looking after all of us, especially Adam, Ashley and Karen. Let us feel your presence....
I love you baby and thank you for all the wonderful memories....
Today is the one year anniversary of your homecoming. A day that is filled with so many emotions. I came home to spend the day with your mom and the rest of the family. When I got in the car this morning, my eyes filled with tears. I promised myself that I was not going to cry today, that I was going to be strong for your mom and everyone else. But the tears began and I couldn't help myself. I miss you so much. I pulled into the drive at your mom's house and the thought of you not being here broke my heart into. I could not sleep last night. I was up all hours of the night just thinking about you and talking to God. Did He tell you? I asked God to tell you how much I love and miss you. As I laid in bed last night, all I could think about was where you were a year ago and did you have any idea that God was preparing your homecoming? My heart filled with sadness at the thought of our loss as a family. But then God gave me comfort in how much He rejoiced at the addition that was made in Heaven one year ago. I read what Karen wrote to you and I agree with her about envying you at times. I know you are at peace and I will see you again someday. I love you and I miss you like crazy. Show us your presence today and keep being our guardian angel. That is a full time job for you. I miss you. I miss your smile, your voice, your laugh, your kiss. I love you so very, very much!!!
One year ago our lives changed forever. Losing you changed everyone profoundly. Gone are the days when I can call you and just tell you "I love you" and hear you say "I love you too Mama"or have that sweet kiss on the cheek. I miss you so much mere words can't describe. I miss that big beautiful smile and that sense of humor but most of all I just miss your presence. We take so for granted the fact that the ones we love will always be here but that is so untrue . We are having a time of just celebrating your life tomorrow let us feel your presence and love . There is a hole in all of our lives that can never be filled except by your presence we miss and love you desperately. One year has gone by and honestly I don't believe anyone hurts any less and tears still flow just thinking of you . YOU are such an intricate part of this family and life will never ever be the same!
A year since youve been gone / Karen Davis (Aunt)Read >>
A year since youve been gone / Karen Davis (Aunt)
Its been almost a year since God chose to take you home. I dont know why but it is just now sinking in that you are really gone, the last few weeks the tears Ive held back so long came from nowhere. I miss you so much, and wish you were still here with us. You are so very missed by your mom, ashley and mama, my heart aches for the pain I see in their eyes on the holidays, special days, every day. In 2 weeks, June 3, 2007, it will be 1 year, and Tammy is trying to plan a special day for our family and all your friends. There will be so many emotions felt during that time, because today, June 3, and always you will be loved and missed so very much. I see lil Madison and I see you, she is so beautiful, so sad that you were taken away from her, but thank you for giving her to us before you left us. I love you baby, and miss your smile, your humor, and that deep scruffy voice of yours. I even sometimes envy you, you no longer have to fight and struggle to make it in this world, you have peace every moment of every day forever, no stress, no heartache, no pain, no fears, there is no evil where you are, you have made it to the other side. We miss you and love you baby, Aunt KayKay
Beautiful site / Jane Jones (mom to Angel Matt Jones )Read >>
Beautiful site / Jane Jones (mom to Angel Matt Jones )
I have just finished reading this site and it has touched my heart. Justin sounds so much like my Matt. I know how much you miss him as his parents and I know how much his sister misses him because Matt also had a sister that was his best friend who he always looked after and protected. My heart goes out to you. I am glad you have a grandson from Justin. Matt also left me a granddaughter who is exactly like him I just wish he had the chance to see her before he died. God Bless you and your family you are in my thoughts. I am so sorry you are on this road with us all. I am sure Justin and Matt have met in heaven and we will see them again.
condolescences/ Susan Harris (Padgett)
It seems only yesterday, I was in High School, (1986) hanging out at the Davis's with Karen, and following the progress of Tammy's pregnancy. Duane was so excited over a boy grandchild, the first boy in a family of girls. My heart goes out to Duane, Helen, Shari, Tammy, Karen, and Ashley... You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Thinking of Justin / Linda-GN Mom2Dawn&Laurie4ever (friend of Mom )Read >>
Thinking of Justin / Linda-GN Mom2Dawn&Laurie4ever (friend of Mom )
Light a Candle
Light a candle for those we mourn Into a new life they will be born. Do not look for them at the gravesite. they are somewhere else radiating their beautiful light. They have gone to a new world where there is no darkness, no pain. Their light and essence will always remain. Light a candle for those who have left this mortal place. They are free to travel through time and space. When we think of them, they are near. When we sit in a beautiful garden. Their voices we hear. When we listen to a divine symphony, We close our eyes, their faces we see. Light a candle for they have not really gone. With each flickering flame, in your hearts they will always belong. Close
miss u so much!!!! / Ashley (sister)
Hey brother, I know its been a while since ive been on here but my computer is broke. God its so hard to believe its has been 9 months since ive talked,seen or laughed with you. Its still so hard to believe your not here trying to keep me strait. Im still working in tallahassee. The drive is killing me though. Acouple of times I know u had to have been with me when i should have wrecked. Ilove and miss u so much more and more everyday. I wish you were here with me and all of us again. Miss u so much and will be seeing you soon!!!! Close
Justin and I had more in common than we ever thought we would. We talked for hours. we laughed at each other, but mostly we were like, "yeah, me too." I miss him so much. I'd give anything to be sitting in his car just talking and laughing just one more night.